many things come up on this topic and so far, I notice that I have two or three possible directions to go with…
The first one is simply analyzing the patterns…
I see different ways of approaching this topic…
- Conflicting desires – like conflict between wanting to be single and wanting to be committed a committed relationship
- Unsolved emotions – like bringing frustration, anger, sadness in a relationship
- Avoiding pain and challenge – Need for emotional safety – conflicting with the desire to be close to someone
- Lack of skills and experience…
- Making the wrong choices… Being attracted to the wrong persons
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A totally different approach is the LOVE BUILDING approach which perfectly complements these previous approaches.
Once we understand the basic challenges, that’s the solution… Love building
