Should you try again if he already said no?


Yes, you can but you have to wait a week minimum.

If you give him another invitation too early, you will sound pushy or needy which is a massive turn off!

So when the opportunity rises again, say something like:

โ€œNext week end, I am going on this road trip with a friend to the coast. We take off on Saturday noon and we will be back in the evening. We need someone who can read maps! You can read maps?โ€

Cool aye?

Here is another one.

โ€œThe Rangers are playing and I have two tickets for the game. You already rejected me miserably once the other day, so I am certainly not going to ask you againโ€ฆโ€
(Smile โ€“ Look in her eyes)

โ€œMaybe I should try with your best friend, Danโ€ฆ It looks like heโ€™s quite into meโ€ฆโ€

โ€œI give you 5 seconds to make a decisionโ€ฆโ€

Play, with this!

Make sure he understands you are teasing him.

Let him see that if he does not say โ€œYesโ€ โ€“ You already have other options lined up.

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Shiva Rajaya

Tantrika / Life coach / Activator of new evolutionary codes for the planet and humankind