Here are 2 core ideas that might help you

β€’ There is no part of you that belongs to me! – This is a direct way of releasing any form of control on another human being – In other terms you cannot own another human being – You can as well remove possessive terms like my girlfriend or boyfriend – Instead when someone asks, you can say “We are lovers”
β€’ Your pleasure feeds me – That’s the second mind set
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