One of the key challenges you face when flirting is to build healthy boundaries.

You must be able to respond effectively when a guy crosses the line and becomes pushy or demanding.

It is a skill.

Develop it and donโ€™t let anyone push you into something you donโ€™t want.

Successful flirting has a lot to do with building healthy boundaries and being able to express your power when you need to.

How to say to a guy that he is going too far?

Simple: be firm, direct and clear.

Stand straight and confident and donโ€™t let anyone cross the line.

If a guy buys you a drink, thatโ€™s all he is buying.

If you smile to a man, thatโ€™s all it means: a smile.

Sure, a smile is an invitation but it is only an invitation to be more open and friendly.

Give him clear signals when he goes too far.

You are in charge of your life, time, personal space, actions and emotions.

Donโ€™t let anyone make you believe otherwise.


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Shiva Rajaya

Tantrika / Life coach / Activator of new evolutionary codes for the planet and humankind