1. Abandonment – Emotionally or physically absent.
  2. Rejection – Withheld love and approval.
  3. Criticism – Constantly pointed out flaws.
  4. Neglect – Ignored emotional or physical needs.
  5. Control – Dominated decisions and choices.
  6. Suppression – Dismissed emotions, enforced stoicism.
  7. Competition – Treated son as a rival, not an ally.
  8. Absence – Rarely involved in upbringing.
  9. Aggression – Used fear, anger, or punishment as discipline.
  10. Conditional Love – Affection based on achievements.

About the author

Shiva Rajaya

Tantrika / Life coach / Activator of new evolutionary codes for the planet and humankind