1. Abandonment – Emotionally or physically absent.
  2. Criticism – Constantly pointed out flaws.
  3. Neglect – Ignored emotional or physical needs.
  4. Control – Dominated decisions and choices.
  5. Enmeshment – Blurred boundaries, overdependent.
  6. Emotional Instability – Unpredictable moods, inconsistent love.
  7. Comparison – Measured against others, fostered insecurity.
  8. Rejection – Dismissed emotions and desires.
  9. Manipulation – Used guilt and shame for control.
  10. Conditional Love – Affection based on achievements.

About the author

Shiva Rajaya

Tantrika / Life coach / Activator of new evolutionary codes for the planet and humankind