If you hear a story about someone and that story affects you, go and check with that person before assuming it is true.People hear things, interpret, rephrase, add their own spin, frustration and stories to them.
Do it!
Check it!
This brings clarity, connection and understanding.
In simple:
Don’t trust gossips!
Second hand information is dangerous and often distorted!
If someone starts a sentence with:
“He said that you had…”
Go back to “he” and check the truth with “he”.
That’s called first hand information and is a way surer source of truth than the gossip one.
