This one is a big one!!!

Just because someone had a shadow 3 years ago doesn’t mean they have it today!

Just because someone had some virtues doesn’t mean they might not have shifted since then!

Shadows and lights are an evolving movie of your life.

In you, these qualities rise, come and go.

A shadow is not fixed or permanent.

It evolves!

The questions to ask are:

  • How intense is that shadow?
  • How permanent?
  • When does it appear?
  • How frequently?
  • When did that happen?
  • What are the triggers?
  • Do you still express it or is it a thing from the past?
  • Etc.
Let’s take an example: integrity.
Example 1
You were out of integrity 3 years ago once for a sum of $20 with a customer because you didn’t offer the refund you promised.

Example 2

You are corrupted politician and you betray your people by receiving cash for years from a corporation to influence your country’s law.

See the difference?

See the impact?

It’s not just having that shadow or not!

It is the intensity, range, permanence, intention, frequency, etc.

Don’t just label yourself or someone else!

Go deeper than that!